Do you ever eat when you're not hungry? That is a silly question, isn't it? Most of us are probably guilty of eating for reasons other than hunger; this is often called emotional eating.
Eating only when you're hungry makes sense on an intellectual level but, emotionally, food often represents more than just a mixture of inanimate ingredients. For many individuals, food is a reward for doing something good, a comfort when we're feeling bad or even something to do when we're bored. People often turn to food when they feel stressed, depression, anxiety, anger, boredom, frustration, and loneliness.
The first step to take control is to figure out what triggers the emotional eating mode. Do you eat more at work, due to stress or boredom? For most people emotional eating is such an ingrained habit, they are not even aware they are doing it.
Often times, I hear my friends and some of my family members complain about losing weight, and how difficult it is to stay on a diet. To be honest, being on a diet is the least of your worries, what one must work on is researching the reason why they over eat, and find alternatives to eating.
Exercise helps to relieve stress and anxiety and it generates energy.
Get in touch with someone either near your home or an online support group. Help each other avoid reaching for food, and reach out for each other.
Walk, it's a way to work through mediation and helps you work through problems.
Listen to your favorite music, it can get you moving, or soothe yourself when you are stress out.
Drink some tea- herbal tea can curb unexpected cravings, and fill you up, using honey as substitute can satisfy your sweet tooth.
Yoga, it relaxes your mind and body.
It might surprise you, but many people struggle with this issue. Your best friend, your sister, your relative or neighbor might be struggling and needing a support system. You could start a group and pick one individual or 2 to help each other on the quest to a healthier you!
Why don't you search the stream and see if you can find a support group or a support friend to help you overcome this issue one day at a time? I'm an emotional non eater, when I'm upset or stressed or lonely, I don't eat. I need to figure out how to help myself because both issues can be harmful to both our minds and bodies.
Have a great week!
It is hard when we seem to struggle with 'not eating enough' or 'eating too much' - why could life not be more simple in that regard? Well, as I try to discourage myself from extra eating I will pray for you to be reminded to eat - June
I gotta admit, I'm an emotional eater. I tend to reach for something to eat if I'm stressed or maybe feelin' a little blue. Food is always a comfort for me. I'm not as bad as I used to be but every now and then I find myself reaching for something when I'm not really even that hungry. It's kind of a hard habit to break but I do think I am getting better.
Yeah that's true...about setting a goal. I can go for up to 4 days without food..I'll drink...coke..or water or gatorade, but I won't eat. It's a bad habit to break too. I always felt it was easier to be in control of the intake...because it comes naturally to me.
Thanks for the help. I'll work on it today. If you have any ideas or groups that might help those seeking would you post it here? I'm going to try to find as much information as possible for anyone needing it.
Love ya
I started my day with a cup of milk...that's a start!
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Love ya, Dixie
Love you!
Thats so crazy. I can't believe the way some people think. My b/f has the song YMCA as a ring song on his phone, and his daughter told him that was a gay song. He was shocked.... We lead a very shelter life style, so we are not aware of this stuff.
I just finished a lunch of cottage cheese, sliced peaches, boiled ham, and crackers. It was hard to get emotional over that.
Yeah my mom was telling me she was an emotional eater as well. I feel awful for her and I want to help her somehow.
Love ya Ms. Dixie. I'm sending you a pm!
1. We admitted we were powerless over food — that our lives had become unmanageable.
2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
5. Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all.
9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong, promptly admitted it.
11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these Steps, we tried to carry this message to compulsive overeaters and to practice these principles in all our affairs.
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